FRIENDSHIP IS THE FOUNDATION OF ALL HUMAN RELATIONSHIPS

“Plant your own garden and decorate your own soul, instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers.”

—Veronica A. Shoffstall

A relationship that has the qualities of friendship will withstand conflicts and strife more efficiently .Man being a social animal craves for human relationships for living a life. No man wishes to survive alone. The foundation of all human relationships should be friendship. Friends become increasingly important to the health and happiness of people as they age. According to a renowned relationship teacher DR. John Gottman, a secret ingredient is capable of turning things around – friendships. The components of friendship help strengthen any relationship whether romantic, friends, or co-workers.
Friendships shall reduce stress and tension by creating conditions of humour, respect, and closeness. Having close friendships as a foundation of all human relationships helps us live longer and healthier. With close bonds, Love and respect will follow up. Growing up in friendships symbolizes love without attachment. One of the most overlooked benefits of friendships is that it helps our body and minds be strong. A recent Harvard study suggested that good friendships promote brain health among people. Time spent with positive people changes our outlook for the better.

Cherishing your relationships and yourself plays an equally important role in any bond. It is a partnership wherein two people are equal. Being a best friend also means helping each other to be the best version of themselves. When you help someone to realize what he or she is, it is a good deed that you do. Similarly, experiences with people shall help you to outgrow yourselves into better humans. Emotional and psychological attachments are important and can only be experienced with friendship as a base.

HOW TO NURTURE FRIENDSHIPS:

Developing and maintaining healthy friendships involves the mechanism of giving and take. You have to give support to others in need, and sometimes you are on the receiving end.

Attitude of Generosity

BE KIND

This behavior is the core of successful relationships and is often taught to us right from our childhood. Every act of kindness and gratitude will make a friendship grow like an emotional bank account.

LISTEN UP

Ask what is going on in your friend’s life. Let the other know you are interested in their life and paying close attention to them shall improve your relationship.

OPEN UP

Build intimacy with your friends on the grounds of honesty and openness. Share your personal experiences and concerns to let them know their importance.

TRUST

Show them that you could be trusted no matter what. Be responsible and follow through on your commitments.

MAKE YOURSELF AVAILABLE

Building a close strong friendship requires time together. Make efforts to see new friends regularly and talk to the old ones.

It is never too late to build new relationships or reconnecting with old pals. Investing time in making friends and strengthening them may lead to better health and a positive outlook.

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